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| A daylight view of the Arabian Gulf from my balcony. |
From anywhere you slice it, the views from my current home are gorgeous. The campus itself is lovely, with lots of shade and gorgeous architecture, but I can't quite divulge pictures just yet, so I'll leave you with some skyline shots. Saadiyat island is always under construction, so you'll see lots of that in pictures, but it's also gorgeous sandy beaches and desert and that sparking gulf water. I always wanted to live on a beach, even if this wasn't quite what I'd originally had in mind. Also a fair warning that this post will be lacking in pictures: privacy laws are very different over here and I still haven't grown accustomed to where I can and cannot take them, so I'm very careful and conservative.
My first week on Saadiyat has been a lot of adjusting, which isn't as awful as it sounds. My major hurdle was the toll the jet lag took on my body. For the first three or four days, I wasn't sleeping well through the night and I was a serial napper. Fortunately for my sanity and my husband's, that seems to have resolved itself. I can now stay up until a decent hour, even when rolling out of bed at 6am (which is WAAAAY out of my usual schedule). Of course, adjusting goes beyond jet lag. Surprisingly, the heat hasn't been too bad of an adjustment. As long as one sticks to the shade, it's really not completely unbearable - that being said, spend a good 10 or so minutes in the sun and you'll feel quite miserable. Also, thanks to the proximity of the gulf, it's impressively humid here. On any given day, the heat index can be 10-20 degrees above the actual temperature. For example, right now the temperature is only 95 degrees outside. Some of you are cringing - trust me, 95 is the coolest it's been in days. With the heat index, however, it's 108.
And then there's the elephant in the room, how does one adapt into living in a totally different culture? One that's, in some views, incredibly oppressive to the female gender? The answer is
you just roll with it. I have seen, in my short time here, women dressed in every possible end of the spectrum, even in public places: women with full-on burkas, women with veils and abayas, women in t-shirts and jeans, women in short, short sleeved dresses. When I went looking for information on what was expected of me in my new home, I read everywhere that it's typical to keep shoulders and knees covered - that is, dress conservatively. Since I've been here, I've pretty much stuck to those rules, favoring my light linen pants or skirts and a breathable short sleeved or quarter length shirt. I've had no issues. Because the culture here is, as I mentioned before, so expat influenced, most people get away with skirting the norms. It's generally understood that unless you upset a local and they say something to you about your dress being offensive, you'll be okay. Now, I am and have always grown up to be a very culture tolerant person. That means that personally, if I wear something that's sleeveless, I won't go out without a light sweater or shawl to put over it. I'm living here in a land that isn't my own, and I'd like to respect their home culture.
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| The Abu Dhabi skyline peeking over a construction barrier. |
In the midst of all of this adjusting, I've gotten to do two of my favorite things: shopping and exploring. My second day here Jon took me to the larger of the two Spinneys, which is the local expat grocery, a British owned company. The larger Spinneys is in town, but we have shuttles running to it, so there was no need to grab a cab there. Spinneys was admittedly a blur, because it was again the day after I landed and I was exhausted. As far as groceries go, you can pretty much find a version of anything you're looking for here, albeit things we'd take for granted back home can be rather expensive. Produce of any kind can be pretty expensive, which means you need to have a pretty good knowledge of what you can find in the region. One thing they seem to do well, however, is bread. There is a large, delicious assortment of fresh breads at the groceries here. We loaded up on groceries and headed home, and I took my first Abu Dhabi cab ride, which Jon still swears was a tame one, and after seeing how other cabbies drive, I'm likely to agree. Cabs are impressively cheap here, which means we've been using them as our main source of transportation, and aren't looking to have our own car anywhere in the future.
My third day here was a trip out to the Marina Mall, and my first experience with retail shopping. The malls here tend to be a four or five story experience, with retail stores covering just about anything you could wavnt. You're assaulted with the aromas of incense and perfumes as you walk past the perfumeries, and you hear everything from arabic music to top 40 hits pumping out of systems in stores ranging from local tailors and robe sellers, to Nautica, Gap, etc. In the same block of stores you can find the two differing cultures clashing with each other: one store's windows are filled with gorgeous silks and abayas, and the next is a Victoria's Secret or a local version thereof (I've seen "Women'secret" here). The juxtapositions are not only fascinating, they're reflective of every day life. The trip to the Marina Mall ended with Carrefour in the basement, which is basically a French Walmart. Anyone familiar with the international hypermarkets will know about what I mean.
A few rest days thrown in and a trip to the smaller, albeit closer grocery in the rich beach resort complex next door to campus occupied the in-between. Then, of course, was the 5 hour marathon shopping trip to IKEA. I'm not going to write an extensive paragraph about IKEA. Those of you who've been, know. Those of you who haven't...well, you should have the experience at least once. We shopped and obtained nearly all of the furniture we wanted for the apartment, minus a footstool or two and a few other things we've come up with since. I'm sure there will be a return trip, and the furniture gets delivered to us tomorrow (HOORAY!!!). One neat thing I did find out about, that I managed to snag a picture of at IKEA, is that because shopping malls here tend to be multi-level, the escalators are adapted to fit carts. Instead of being stairs, they're more of slanted moving walkways that grab the cart wheels so they don't go careening down. It's probably one of the most genius inventions ever (also I'm amused by simple things).
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| The genius shopping cart carriers. |
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My latest shopping experience came yesterday, where we went to another local shopping mall, the Abu Dhabi mall. Yesterday was also the first day I really felt awake enough to enjoy the trip into the city and really soak in the sights and sounds. Abu Dhabi is such a bustling place, with crazy traffic. Every building in the city center seems to be some version of a skyscraper, and yet in the middle of all of this development and modernization there are still beautiful mosques everywhere. They really seem almost out of place in the city landscape, yet here they're as natural and as expected as can be. For the first time yesterday as I stepped out of the shuttle, I heard the call to prayer, which was hauntingly beautiful and melodic amongst the noise of the metropolitan setting - cars, horns, construction, everything you'd expect out of a city. It was a auditory reminder, just like the mosques are a visual one, that despite being a forward-pressing, modernizing nation, this country is still ripe in tradition, and often manages to find an perfect blend of the old and the new without compromising anything.
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| My slow cooker, in all its glory on my home counter. |
Once inside the mall, the experience was about the same as the Marina, except that this time I did manage to wander in to H&M and stock up on much needed headbands to keep my hair back from my face, and we visited the Abu Dhabi Mall's version of a basement supermarket, the Cooperative Society, to pick up a few more household items we were missing, including something that was a complete and total wonderful surprise to find...a SLOW COOKER. My husband had told me that they simply didn't exist here, and I was inclined to believe it after having looked all over for one and not found one. Then, yesterday, we were perusing the aisles for a rice cooker, and I saw it sitting there, all alone on the shelf, one of the last in stock, in all its glory. Anyone who knows me knows that I am not too great of a cook, and a slow cooker is pretty much my savior, because it's super easy to make delicious meals. Finally, I feel like I may be able to contribute to this marriage in the kitchen a bit. ;)
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| We're pretty adorable. |
Yet despite yesterday's exciting shopping trip and its incredibly fruitful results, I still think the best part of the day was the fact that I've been married to my wonderful husband for a full month and despite having dragged me halfway around the world to a strange (yet wonderful place), I still think he's a pretty swell guy. Here's a picture of the two of us before our mall trip, where we managed to celebrate by having a nice dinner at P.F. Chang's (Yes, yes, I know. An American chain is my first restaurant out. Don't judge me. It was there, we were there, we were hungry, and it was a nicer option than the food court...).